If that is your choice, okay.

I guess your culture that worships ‘hypocrisy’ while calling it all other Orwellian names; considers yourself superior to a culture that worships honesty, above hypocrisy and two faced ‘dignity’.

Thats okay.. there are alot of people like that, who prefer someone gives them fake dignity, than blunt honesty.

I am a Radical Hon(our)sty Bushido Discordian; ie (www.radicalhonesty.com) + Bushido Way of the Warrior + Discordian = Radical Hon(our)sty… we have a total free speech philosophy.

When someone who is angry with us, or who is disgusted with our behaviour tells us that to our face, in unequivocal terms, we consider that the highest form of respect they could give us. They valued us enough to be totally honest with us. That is what we consider the highest form of respect; not two faced ‘dignity’, behind a wall of self righteous superiority.

But, to each his own.. I know our radical honesty way is the way of the warrior… it ain’t for the faint hearted or those with fragile ego’s who prefer not to take a look in the mirror.

So, i hope the alter at which you worship brings you much joy and that you find there what you are looking for..

Take care… As I said earlier.. let me know if you change your mind..

For my door is never shut to anyone.. not even fools…, cause being a happy honest fool, is what I consider wisdom!

Lara Johnstone
PS: If one day hypocrisy no longer works for you.. you can experiment with practicing some radical honesty, and admit your addiction to being a poverty pimp white guilt do gooder.

Don’t worry, we all been there… you may stay in the rut your whole life, or you may awake and move on…

Say what you like, I’ve said all I’m going to, and future readers can make up their own minds who is right here.

As a last word, I’ll answer your earlier question. If Jesus asks why I walked away (he won’t), I’d reply with the paradox of Proverbs 26:4-5, “do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will be wise in his own eyes.”

Hilarious…. You don’t listen to yourself, but expect others to listen to you!

Classic Poverty Pimp hypocrisy…

That is where my right comes from, my respect to another to be honest with them, as opposed to a two faced hypocrit.

As for ‘cant afford contraceptives’…. you answered your other question… as to how they are savages.. when I can’t afford contraception, I behave like a human and close my legs and don’t fornicate with any walking penis..

The inability to practice some sexual restraint, and refrain from acting like a dog on heat, is the difference — for me — between a human and a savage on viagra.

Ever heard of ‘JUST SAY NO’!

Furthermore an IUD is very fucking cheap, and lasts for upto 12 or twenty years. Allot of poor people’s alcohol budgets would pay for contracpetions for ever….

You, however, are welcome to your right to being a two faced hypocrit… since you are clearly very very attached to that poverty pimp right…

What gives you the right to describe poor people, with no access to contraceptives, as ‘savages on viagra’?

In the year I spent with Black Africans in prison, listening to them, in the three years I spent living in an American black ghetto; in the years I spent working with African american prisoners, not once, did I ever walk away from a conversation.

But I cannot tell you how many white poverty pimp do gooders… walk away from a conversation..

So, as I said.. let me know when you willing to have the conversation..

Till then… All the best… not sure what you gonna tell Jesus, when he says…

And about that conversation you walked away.. from cause you did not want to confront your poverty pimp hypocrisy?

tell me, what was that about?

Your poverty pimp attitude to my addiction to being a savage on viagra, would do me fuck all good! And you would justify your do-gooder poverty pimpiing, by your self righteous attitude that you do not want to insult me with the truth!

You are a two faced hypocrit… worse, a self righteous two faced hypocrit!

The savages on viagra deserve better help than two faced poverty pimp do gooders who don’t even think the savages deserve to hear the truth, about their condition!

If there was one thing Jesus hated, it was hypocrisy!

Take a look in the Mirror, Mr. Two Faced Christian!

Lara

People in poor countries have lots of children because too many of them die, and having lots means a greater likelihood of some surviving into adulthood. Lift people out of poverty, and the problem is solved, as plenty of countries have proved already. It wasn’t so long ago that couples had half a dozen children in Europe too.

You’re dismissing a very serious issue as people who don’t want to be helped. Perhaps you don’t mean it that way, but the tone you have taken with this is cynical. I’m all for practical action rather than positive thinking, but I’ve got no time for judging people from afar either.

Cynical and insulting? Wow, okay…

I guess it doesn’t take much to insult you… Cause well for me.. there is absolutely nothing you can say, in any language on the planet.. that I would find insulting…

I just think choosing to feel insulted is a big waste of time and energy… but I do acknowledge that a majority of the planet choose to feel insulted quite often.. often only based on a few words strung together…

Anyway… wasn’t ol Jesus crucified cause he said some things that some people found insulting?

personally I have found his teaching to be far more encouraging towards self sufficiency, than to codependancy.. although of course that depends on whether you are into organised religions interpretations of his word, or others..

anyway… having worked with former prisoners, and so on.. i am of the view that you cannot help anyone who does not want to be helped.. and i first make very very sure anyone wants to be helped.. and you can only help an alcoholic.. including a poverty pimp alcoholic once they admit they are poverty pimp alcoholics… So while they are in denial there is sweet bugger all you can do for them… Of course you can choose to encourage their denial, with fake two faced positive thinking BS…

Anyway….. to each their own…

Good luck…

Lara